Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.

Every once in a while one of those forwarded e-mails comes through that I really like. Here's one from today which I thought was poignant ...

Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolf hound named Belker. I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. Six-year-old Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion.

We sat together for a while afterwards, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives. Shane piped up, 'I know why.' What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, 'People are born so that they can learn how to live a good Life -- like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?' The Six-year-old continued, 'Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long.'

Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:
  • When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
  • Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
  • Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure ecstasy.
  • Take naps.
  • Run, romp, and play daily.
  • Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
  • Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
  • Be loyal.
  • Never pretend to be something you're not.
  • If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
  • Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.

Friday, September 19, 2008

Misery loves company

I decided a long time ago that migraines are one of the most evil of creations. For anyone that suffers from them, you know what I'm talking about. Well, on the "Today Show" the other day they did a segment on migraines and, because misery does indeed love company, I thought I'd post some of the interesting factoids:

  • Thirty million people in the United States get migraines. If you don’t get them, you certainly know someone who does: One in ten people in this country is a migraineur (a person who gets migraines), and one in four American households include a migraineur.

  • Migraine is the ninth-leading cause of disability among women, and the nineteenth most-common disability in the world, more common than diabetes or asthma.

  • It’s also one of the most painful and debilitating. The throbbing head pain and nausea can knock you out of commission, sometimes for days. More than 76 percent of migraineurs have had to postpone planned activities with children and other loved ones because of migraine sickness, and 50 percent say they can’t do anything at all but lie in their beds during an attack. (that'd be me!)

  • Migraine runs up more than $1 billion a year in health costs and at least $13 billion in losses to industry due to absenteeism and reduced effectiveness at work.
Wow! My other favorite migraine study that I read recently was about a potential link between Botox injections and migraine prevention. So, perhaps if they perfect that link one day I can be migraine and wrinkle free :)

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Duke pics

As promised, a few Duke pics that Brad took of the Duke Chapel when we were in town this past weekend ...

Catch-up!

So, a quick catch-up post to say where we've been of late...

We finally were able to coordinate schedules with Kiera and Ryan and go visit them in Richmond, VA at their new abode. Their new house is absolutely GORGEOUS! Just perfect for their family and I've decided that I want to go live in their kitchen. There's certainly plenty of room in there (and the cabinets make a perfect home, as Natalie so kindly showed us :)

We also went down to NC last weekend. We were in Durham one day and introduced our dog, Duke, to his namesake Duke U. (A couple of cool pics to come in the next post! ) After that we headed to Chapel Hill one night to attend a concert that one of Brad's friends from Duke, Chris Boerner, was performing at. It was a great show and fun to be back at the Cat's Cradle where we used to hang out back in college!

Here's Chris rocking out on the guitar!:


And the lead singer of Chris's band, Mosadi: